Back in March, I wrote a piece about the Pope speaking to American bishops about the need for a culture war about marriage equality- and we got one. The Catholic Church was the largest single contributor (through the Bishop’s Conference, the Knights of Columbus and the National Organization For Marriage) against marriage equality initiatives in four states.
Kind of makes you wonder what kind of help those millions of dollars would have given the poor if they hadn’t been so horribly directed against love.
Anyway, I ended that essay with with an open letter to LGBTIQ persons who live every day in the face of moral attack, physical violence and angry, ignorant, powerful people. We may have come a long way this year, but we’re not there yet.
So- if I may be so bold- I’d like to reprint the letter as a reminder that we need to find inspiration in ourselves. We need to remember that in the face of ignorance, we must continually speak the quiet, powerful truth of purpose and experience.
And I need to be reminded just as much as anybody else.
To my LGBTIQ family,
Love toward yourself remains a fundamental principle of morality. Therefore it is important and necessary to insist on respect for your own right to life. I believe you were created to fill a very important place in this world- a place often dramatically misunderstood and opposed by people out of ignorance and fear.
It is crucial that you understand that you are not alone- there are millions of people who want to understand you and accept you and who will love you. You have the right to be understood- and you have the right to love and be loved in the ways you feel are most faithful to your created nature.
You have the right to live free from fear of attack and violence. You have the right to defend yourself against ignorant attacks on your dignity, happiness and self-respect. You have the right to fulfill your potential and to follow your heart and mind and soul and dreams to the best of your ability. Despite ignorance, despite persecution, despite fear and power and hate.
I believe that we are all beloved by the God of our understanding. I believe that we are valuable in being beloved. And that value is not diminished, even in the face of anger, fear and ignorance. Even in the face of religious belief which would deny us that value.
We are a courageous, wonderful people, with visions of love and acceptance and equality and happiness that I believe are deeply important to the future of the world.
I beg you, don’t let go of these visions- no matter how strongly others try to pull them away from you. They are your birthright.
They are the key hope to a world filled with peace.
- Where are we going with marriage equality? (jaypinho.com)
- Update on Catholic Financing of Marriage Equality Opposition (newwaysministryblog.wordpress.com)
- Roman Catholic Church Gave $2 Million To Stop Marriage Equality (towleroad.com)
- Sorry, Orphans, The Catholic Church Spent That $2 Million To Fight Marriage Equality (queerty.com)
- Catholic Mom Takes on U.S. Bishops (newwaysministryblog.wordpress.com)
- Pope Benedict denounces gay marriage during his annual Christmas message (nydailynews.com)