Lest We Forget

The blogmance continues between me and MT Cowgirl… I’m completely busy these days working at my real job as a therapist and organizing the OSullivan Estate Sale (Sept 24-26th if you’re interested), and Cowgirl’s doing a great job of keeping the fringe on it’s toes. Well, she would if they really paid any attention- which, as a psychologist, I know that narcissistic ideologues rarely do…. Anyway, if you’re not checking out her blog every day, it’s a good idea. Not only for liberals, but for reasonable conservatives who don’t want their party hijacked- and I know you’re out there….

She has a great story today about Rehberg’s selling out the Republican Party to the Tea Party Movement.

Once again, oh ye students of history, a “movement” insinuates itself into democracy, and ideology desires to trounce representative government….

It usually ends badly.

A Glacier Wedding

I’m headed to West Glacier to hang out with some of my Seattle people and watch Eric And Logan get married. I’m very excited to be spending time in a cabin in the woods with people I love to go out with, but have never shared a bathroom with- well, except Al, I guess. Now I’m worried. He spends a lot of time in the bathroom. (Okay, I shouldn’t have said that, he’s sensitive.)

So this isn’t as political as it sounds. Eric and Logan are Montana kids who now live in Seattle. And Logan is a beautiful woman who simply happens to have the name of at least three generations of men in my family. Times a’changin’ and all that.

I wonder what my grandfather (Logan) would say to that? Come to think of it, not much. I think I only ever heard him speak a full sentence when my brother (Logan) and I broke the back window of the Old Ford throwing wood into the back of the truck for the winter wood pile back home. And then it was a simple declarative with an understood personal pronoun: “Guess you’ll be payin’ for that.” My father (David Logan) made sure we did.

Anyway- posting may be spotty- I’ll take pics and maybe post some stuff, but I’m going to try and relax. I’ve had a very crazy few weeks behind me.

In the meantime- check out the wedding website. They’re good people with great friends and it should be quite a party.

New Banner Pic

Ken and I were visiting my parents last week in Twin Bridges, and we were lucky enough to see this complete rainbow over the Madison County Fairgrounds- even luckier that I had my new camera with panoramic view! I had to cut it a bit for the banner, full pic is below, along with a closer view…

Enjoy!

Lots Going On

Hey there! Miss me?

I’ve been working hard to get things out of the house to the Butte Archives– lots of history here, especially as it relates to the history of the Irish in Butte. Ken and I waded through boxes and drawers, braved attics (yes, more than one!), spiders and dust to sort through all the ephemera. None of it was organized, but most of it was very interesting. The Archives took away 17 banker’s boxes on Tuesday, and there’s still more to do- they brought ten more empty boxes….

I also hosted Eamonn and Vivien De Burca from Dublin to appraise some of Sars’ general Irish books and we had a great visit. It’s also the An Ri’ Ra’ Irish Festival here, so lots going on.

Breathe, Greg. Breathe.

Schmucks, Dinner and The Vin Room

A Relaxing day yesterday- it was Heritage Day in Alberta. I expected Holly Hobbie dresses and Ma Ingalls look-a-likes, but no such luck… Instead, the town was just, well, empty. Spent some time just relaxing round the house and then we decided we had to do something. So we saw Dinner for Schmucks (FUNNY) and then went to The Vin Room for dinner. (FANFREAKINGTASTIC) Erika served us and she really knew her stuff. We just told her what we were looking for in general, sat back and ate and drank whatever she brought us.

Courses of: Oysters, fried camembert, mussels, lobster nachos, bison short ribs, finished with raspberry sorbet. Each dish accompanied by 2 oz of two different wines- one for me, one for Nicole (which we promptly shared). We were there for three hours enjoying ourselves immensely and were delighted when Jonathan stopped in with his friend, Katie.

Jonathan, Katie and Nicole at the Vin Room

Did I mention the downpour?

It happened right after we were seated and lasted a good 20 minutes. There’s nothing like the feeling when you’re warm, dry and comfortable and the world outside is cold, wet and messy….

Rest Stop

It seems so strange to have to travel 7 hours by car through rain, hail a dust storm and a particularly Barbie-looking Canadian Border Patrol guard to get to a place where I don’t notice the pressures of life so much.

But it’s true.

Whenever I wake up in this house in Calgary, I feel very relaxed, refreshed and I often roll over and go back to sleep. I even stayed off the computer for over 36 hours!

Today, more relaxing, probably some Scrabble and then I think we’re going to see Dinner For Schmucks. I’ll let you know.

Peace,
~G

I’m Back- For A Bit

After a long weekend with early flights, hurried meet and greets with people I love, a little karaoke, a 600 mile drive and time with my parents in a Missoula Hilton, I’m finally ready to get back to Butte.
Things may be a little hectic, but I’m really looking forward to seeing Jacques and Arthur and getting the estate sale underway. Then it’s CPG in Helena followed by Calgary!

No rest for the driven…
Oh, and for those of you who might have missed it, the underwhelming statement by the MT Democratic Chair on the GOP Plank is here.

The San Diego Experience

It’s been great so far. I’ve experienced gorgeous weather, beautiful people- both inside and out, spent time with two mommies and their baby, quality time with Ken, a gay dog show with Greg Louganis, Pride Parade with a VIP wristband on (free liquids and shade), margaritas and parties and beach and good food and breakfast with Gregory Hinton….

Life can only get better. That’s a rule.

That includes making it better by getting rid of that hate-filled Montana GOP platform plank.

I may be on vacation, but rest assured, I’ve not forgotten. And I’m going to make sure you don’t either.

Vacation, Doctors and Friends

In the next few days I’ll be driving to Spokane and Seattle, then flying to San Diego and back again.  I get to meet with my general doc and my HIV doc in Seattle, and see some dear friends there. Then it’s off to be with my husband, Ken, his sister, her wife and their daughter. (Wow, tough sentence.). I also get to meet two of my heroes (and correspondence and phone friends), Gregory Hinton and Gregory Louganis for the first time. Not all together- it’s going to be on two separate occasions. I wish we could all get together and have a Gregory Summit.

Now that would be cool. Hmmm…. food for thought.

Anyway, I’ll sort of be trying to recreate and chill, so posts may not be so frequent. BUT, do not give up talking to your friends, neighbors, family and political representatives about the MT GOP Bigotry and Why Montana Matters.

It’s important.

Stay cool, my people. You make the world better.

Two Spirits


My friend Gregory Hinton’s remarks at the West Hollywood One City One Pride screening of the film Two Spirits presented by his creation, OUT WEST. Thought-provoking and amazing enough to share them with you here. Please pass them along to others. This is a remarkable film about a beautiful part of our heritage, often overlooked in modern culture.
OUT WESTtm

LGBT STORIES OF THE AMERICAN WEST

Two Spirits

Remarks by Gregory Hinton

Creator and Producer of Out West

West Hollywood One City One Pride

June 28, 2010

West Hollywood, California

Thank you, Councilmember Horvath for your generous introduction. Welcome all!  Before we screen the film, with the permission of our filmmakers, I’d like to tell you a bit about Out West.

Out West is an educational program series dedicated to shine a light on the contributions of our community to the history and culture of the American West.  I have been privileged to develop Out West with my founding partner, the Autry National Center. http://theautry.org/series/out-west

Tonight, Out West has a new friend – the City of West Hollywood. I am so grateful to the City Council, the Arts and Cultural Affairs Commission and its wonderful staff, the Lesbian and Gay Advisory Board, and the Transgender Advisory Board for including Two Spirits in their 25th One City One Pride program series.   I hope it is the first of many Out West collaborations.  www.weho.org/pride

In one short year, we’ve presented two very successful Out West programs at the Autry, with two more planned for the fall and winter. On July 24th, the Autry is celebrating the National Day of the Cowboy and Cowgirl. Their website has the details. Representing the Autry here are my friends Joan Cumming, Senior Director of Marketing and Marlene Head, editor of the Autry’s Convergence Magazine.

Tom Gregory, HBO, Tim Gill, and James Hormel were our first responders.  Our friends at GLAAD and HRC have supported us from day one.

Seated in this theater tonight, are western scholars, authors, musicians, artists, and filmmakers all working on books, songs, paintings, and films to further Out West’s objective of dispelling the notion that there is no place for our community in the American West.  You’ll be hearing more about them very soon.

I myself was born on the Fort Peck Indian Reservation, in the remote northeastern corner of Montana.  My wonderful brother Scott was also gay.  We skipped rocks on the Missouri River, near the same banks where Lewis and Clark made camp with Sacagawea.

We later moved south to Cody, Wyoming, founded by Buffalo Bill.  We routinely attended rodeos and powwows. Yellowstone Park was our backyard.  It was a wonderful, magical childhood. It was a time when children wandered, and mothers expected their safe return.

It is for this reason that I am devoted to the mission of Out West. Times have changed since my brother and I were boys.  Born in rural communities, many of us feel forced to leave our families behind to move to the city in search of identity, companionship, and safety.

That said, happily, not everybody leaves. And some of us return. And some of us, city born, visit the American West, like what we see and move there. I encourage everyone sitting in this theater tonight to take your families on a car trip through the American West.  It will change your perspective. It has changed my life.

The American West – its art, its history and vast natural resources – belongs to everyone.  Its stewardship cannot – must not – be left in the hands of those who would restrict our community’s right to the pursuit of happiness openly and without fear.

The rights and freedoms afforded us by the vision, vigilance, and hard work of the leaders of West Hollywood are far from the realities of our sister communities in the rural West.  Missoula recently became the first Montana city to adopt anti-discrimination laws to protect our community.  Opposing forces – including the father of a young Lesbian who pushed it through – have now filed suit to overturn it.

It is my hope that national organizations will step up efforts to support our country family, which often feels marginalized because its numbers are few.  And perhaps through Out West, urban communities such as West Hollywood might become “sister cities” with their rural western counterparts: Laramie, Bozeman, and Boise.

The city and the country have a lot to catch up on.  We have much to teach each other. To protect our rural kids, and our rural elders, our community must be visible, like a porch light streaming into the western night sky.

And now, to Lydia and Russell, the filmmakers of Two Spirits, thank you for your advocacy by flipping on the switch.

Two Spirits is the story of Fred Martinez, a Navajo boy who was also a girl. It is also the story of Pauline Mitchell, the mother who loved him, who prayed every night for his safe return.

It speaks to the prescience of the Navajo culture.  Imagine a time where Two Spirit children were adored, their talents cultivated, their spirits revered.

The World Premiere of Two Spirits was sponsored by the Matthew Shepard Foundation in Denver.  I recently told Judy Shepard that in addition to experiencing bias as a gay man, I have also experienced bias as a rural westerner. I asked her if Matt loved Wyoming. Judy told me he stayed in Laramie because it was home and he loved the out of doors.

The love of mothers and courage of sons astonishes.

Stay home if you want. Be who you are. This is the mission of Out West.

And now, Two Spirits.

Following the fifty minute screening, producer Russell Martin will speak to us and introduce Lydia Nibley, the director. After remarks from Lydia, our honored guest Dr. Wesley Thomas, Dean of Humanities, and renowned Native American Two Spirit authority from Arizona’s Dine College will be introduced, with a Q & A and reception to follow.

The West belongs to everyone.  It’s our history, too.   Thank you, West Hollywood!

www.twospirits.org