Last week, I posted about my disappointment with Steve Bullock’s position on marriage equality- and there were several comments here, on other blogs and on Twitter debating whether we (progressives) could afford to not get behind the presumed Democratic nominee.
I simply want to say here, as I have in some responses on other platforms, that I am responding in the spirit of creative dissent. I am not going to lean back, say “Oh well, maybe someday he’ll get it,” act like nothing happened and proceed with business as usual. I’ve come too far- we’ve come too far- to do that.
When I moved back to Montana I made myself a promise- that I would never lie about or be ashamed of my thoughts, feelings or beliefs- even when they were unpopular or provocative. I also promised that, as a middle-aged gay man, I would do everything I could to ensure the continued, progressively advancing sense of dignity for all LGBT persons in the state of Montana. I’ve dealt with too many suicidal kids, too many disowned sons and daughters, too many shame-filled, damaged people to trust that politicians will, on their own, work to protect us.
They have to be convinced. And in order to do that, we first have to get their attention.
Looks like we did. Now, until something further is done, I’m voting for the candidate who most represents my views, just as everyone should. I’m against the death penalty, want women to make their own choices about their health, support legal recognition of same-sex relationship recognition/protection, and am a fan of higher education and preserving a clean planet. I want healthcare and insurance companies to be reasonable and efficient- and treat people with mental illness and substance issues with dignity and respect. I want the justice system to be fair to all citizens. I want church and state to be separate. I want the poor and disadvantaged to be given every chance to succeed.
I’m also a big fan of dialog, not diatribe. And dialog is about the expression of opinion, listening and responding accordingly. That’s all I hoped to accomplish. I am not out to derail the Democratic Party- and I will absolutely vote for the Democrat for Governor in the fall. The alternatives are too creepy to think about. I just wanted to be heard on behalf of the thousands of LGBT Montanans in this state- many of whom hold my views.
Now, about that Republican platform plank….
- Gay justice supports gay marriage (upi.com)
- Governor hopefuls split by party on Schweitzer health clinic plans (billingsgazette.com)
- ACLU Asks Montana Supreme Court to Recognize Relationships of Same Sex Couples (dgsmith.org)
- Montana’s Last Best Chance (dgsma.wordpress.com)
- Steve Bullock Just Lost My Vote (dgsmith.org)
- Couple’s Love Inspires A More Equal Montana (dgsma.wordpress.com)
- Most governor candidates favor death penalty, oppose abortion and gay marriage (billingsgazette.com)
I may have overreacted a bit in my response to your previous post as well. This whole issue has been challenging for me because I am a very big Bullock supporter and I’m not sure how to interpret his statements. I know what I want to believe and I can understand him wanting to protect himself for the general election but it still concerns me. Either way you are certainly entitled to your opinion, especially during a primary election.